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Own Who You Are

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To own who you are, one must really know who they are. I personally feel like in order to own who you are, you must go through a lengthy process that requires confidence, self love, lots of grace, trusting your gut, and maturity. Owning who you are definitely doesn’t happen over night.

With a lot of self reflection over the last few years, multiple trips to a therapist, and allowing myself to go through a recovery phase, I feel like I can officially own who I am. It’s really cool to say that. I also know that even though I own it, I can still change it at any time. There’s power in change too.

There’s something to be said for those who put in the work to better themselves. I honestly feel like it’s a lifelong journey to become the best version of you, but like anything else in life, the more you work at it, the better you become. So in summary, own it all. Own your flaws, own your wins, and own your failures. Own your mistakes and disappointments. Own your achievements and praise your efforts. Own your quirks, and own your craft. When you own who you are, you’ll be unstoppable.

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XO, ALEX

Sunshine & Good Feelings

Let’s be honest here, I’ve barely had any “spare time” lately to carry out my goal of being more present on the blog. Every minute of “spare time” I spend soaking up the little moments with my sweet boy, or catching up with my husband’s work day, or watching a little mindless TV. I’ve been so busy at work the last few weeks and with Evan’s travel schedule, I’ve barely kept my head above water. I feel like I’m in a constant floating stage, where one wrong move will cause me to literally sink. Don’t get me wrong, I love being busy. I’m more driven and focused when I’m busy, but being a Mom is a whole new kind-of busy that I’m still learning.

So today I’m popping on here, to share some positive vibes, sunshine and good feelings. If I’m ever not on here in a consistent or timely fashion, check for me on Instagram @Lexwhatwear – I keep my feed pretty up to speed with all things style, life, baby, work, etc. Ideally I would like to keep that same consistency here, and I will get there eventually. Until then, let’s keep the sunshine and good feelings alive.

Happy Thursday Friends. Check my outfit of the day below, and shop my new FAVORITE sweatshirt from The Mason Jar Boutique HERE. Go out there and tackle the day with a smile, and spread some love. You got this. WE’VE ALL GOT THIS!

XO, ALEX

Goodbye Perfectionist

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I recently saw a quote on Pinterest, and I haven’t been able to shake the impact it had on my heart. I’ve talked a lot over the years about my anxiety on here, and I think it’s important to give some context to exactly where I believe my anxiety stems from.

I have one word for you: FEAR. Fear of disappointing, fear of not being good enough, fear of the unknown, fear of death, fear of change, fear of forgetting, fear of losing, fear of fear.

Over the course of my battle with anxiety, I’ve learned to cope in many strategic ways. In particular, I’ve always convinced myself that if it’s perfect, there’s no reason to have fear. I’m the first to admit, I’m an aspiring perfectionist. I don’t necessarily find it a great quality. I’m incredibly meticulous, and I over think everything. I operate this way so I can ensure it’s perfect.

Well I’ve got news for YOU and for ME. I’m working my tail off to say GOODBYE PERFECTIONIST, and hello to embracing my fears, and meeting them head on. If I can be proud of anything, I want it to be that I’m not fearful. I’m not anxious, because I’m not afraid. I’m not perfecting, because I don’t have that ongoing fear of whatever it is in that moment.

Goodbye Perfectionist. See you never!

XO, ALEX

My Little Valentine

Nothing quite compares to the love I have for my little Valentine. I know I gush about him on here enough, but I just can’t handle how adorable and amazing he is. At just 6 months old, my little valentine has changed my life, and Evan and I can’t wait to spoil him with all of our love every day.

Thank you for choosing us little guy. We are so blessed to be your parents, and your first ever Valentines.

XO, ALEX